Re: Still not over it
I definitely don't think it's too much to ask. He needs to be very careful with the situations he puts himself in. Perhaps in his mind he thought he was being an open book by telling you all about it-- thus elevating your level of trust. I would tell him plainly that it makes your trust level go down even though he's not technically doing anything. His best answer to a question like that would be, "I'm sorry I can't help you out. Being a married man, I'm a little out of the dating loop." Then, he needs to exit stage right-- quickly.
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