COguy

As others have said, your wife's a snatch.

To say it the way she said it, reeks of selfishness and lack of care for you. Like if she wants to, regardless of how you feel, she's going to get screwed and have a baby. She's going to do whatever it takes! Even if it hurts you!

Not the good groundwork for a marriage, let alone a new baby.

If she was really interested in having a baby, and having one with you, she would be approaching it much more delicately. Your marriage is on shaky ground if this is the tone, spouses need to put their relationship first if they want to succeed. That means partners come before kids. Sounds like she is willing to give you the finger as long as she has a baby. It's a recipe for disaster.