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norajane · 04-20-2012, 10:47 AM

Does he have friends?

To me, expecting you to give up your friendships is a red flag, unless you have inappropriate friendships with men.

I couldn't be with someone who wanted me to give up all my friendships - I have known some of these people half of my life and most of my adult life. No way would I drop people who love me and whom I love. What kind of person would I be if I turned my back on them?

And you also mentioned he wants you to give up certain family members? No, that is controlling behavior. Unacceptable to me.

04-20-2012, 10:47 AM	#3 (permalink)
norajane Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 1,257	Re: Friends or Love Does he have friends? To me, expecting you to give up your friendships is a red flag, unless you have inappropriate friendships with men. I couldn't be with someone who wanted me to give up all my friendships - I have known some of these people half of my life and most of my adult life. No way would I drop people who love me and whom I love. What kind of person would I be if I turned my back on them? And you also mentioned he wants you to give up certain family members? No, that is controlling behavior. Unacceptable to me.