| | Re: Question
broke- you can blame yourself for a crappy marriage and from the sounds of it, most of the onus was truly yours to own
that said, she had a choice
either stop putting up with your addiction and file
go outside the marriage to seek what she perceived as happiness
one choice is understandable and honorable
the other is not
now while your case may be worse than most, the truth is that ALL marriages have problems. But to me the degree of the problem doesn't matter, it only plays into whether or not if R is on the table if the marriage is worth being saved.