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Old 04-20-2012, 01:07 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by christine30 View Post
He has friends, I have two best friends who have been there for me, and I wouldn't give them up.. just the ones that like to hang out and go out every time. certain family members who cause drama in my life..
Hard to tell but it sounds like he is not for the friends that hangout and go out to certain venues.

If he is talking about living a single lifestyle that is one thing. If he is talking about marriage friendly friends that is another.

From your posts it sounds like he is against the partying lifestyle.

If by hangout we are talking about a group of women going out to dinner, a spa or seeing a movie that is a normal GNO.

If these friends are about hanging out with other men, drinking and clubbing then I can see his point.

So I guess all I am saying is that it depends on what the dynamics are of the friendship. Even frequency matters.

Do the activities include keg stands? j/k

I see the reference to relationships come and go but friends are always there or some such. I guess this is the point. For me friends come and go but the constant has been my marriage.
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