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Old 08-18-2007, 12:08 AM   #43 (permalink)
stevewsc
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: rockhill, sc
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Default Re: can you help me save my marriage

ok crap hit the fan tonight! i went to the house tonight and changed the lawnmower battery, rounduped the flower beds, fed and watered the dogs, worked on the pool. well i caught wife drinking through he window a couple times. well me and haily left to get some gas for the 4 wheelers. she called twice wanting to know where we were. well got home and i wanted to go out and do the gas and change the security lights. she kept telling me no you can do it tomorrow. she told me she had been drinking and said dont tell. i asked her if she had a problem and she said no. she said alcoholics shake when they wake up for a drink and i said no. well she had to pee and i hit the unlock key on her car went outside and got her cell. well she came out with haily and said did he leave? i said no. well i fooled around doing things and she wouldnt let me out of her sight cause she didnt want me leaving for the night. well i got away from her and i saw that she called me and then him one minute later. well there were two missed calls from him. well she came back out side and please come in. well i said let me water the dogs and i will be in. she went inside. well i looked at her text messages. shwan to her i love u. her to him the same over and over and over. then some that said i need u. then some that say you 2 minute man u suck. on and on and on. well then i get to the night i found out about him. she sent one saying. i love you dont worry about it. well she came outside. i walked around the play house and wouldnt you know it he calls again as i was walking to the house. she said who is calling and i walked around the corner and threw her phone in the woods. she said where is your phone? i said we need to talk. she said about what. i said shawn. she said i still have a place in my heart for him. she said he still loves me from 8 years ago. i said did you sleep with him and she said no. well i called her out on the texts. she said where is your phone. i said here. i turned it on. i said if he is a friend call him now and tell him we have been together all week. she said he knows. i said call hiim, if he is a friend he wont have nothing to say but good i hope u two work it out. she said no i dont have to. she said knew i couldnt trust you. i said do you want me to stay she said yes. i said call him then. she said no. so i left. when i got home i called her parents. i said she has a problem and i know she has been sleeping with shawn. i said dont care about him i am worried about the drinking. i said just go to the house tomorrow and do as i say. i told them where the bottles were and they agreed not to talk to her tonight. her dad said he would get them all tomorrow and we would have a family meeting when the store closes. so i am hoping they dont get the **** and throw it away tomorrow. i think they realize she is a drunk. her mom told me to take haily from her. man oh man. i knew i should hope for the worst in this. i am not mad at shawn. she was a prime target and a ex. he wouldnt answer numerous blocked calls tonight but i did send him some texts saying she had been with me all week and they were blocked also. her mom told me that tuesday when i droped her off at the store that she broke down crying. she told her that she really did love me and she wanted to be with me. i said well martha i have enough to take haily from her. and if this drinking doesnt get resolved i will. she said well i am moving in monday and we allready talked about it. i said yall just get the bottles and i will see you and her tomorrow and we will talk.............................................. ...............
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