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Winnie · 07-09-2009, 10:28 AM

My husband and I have been happily as well as unhappily married for 20 years now. We both don't want to give up on the marriage, but sometimes I feel that I try to understand him a lot more than he tries to understand me. He has never been physically abusive with me, but today I got pretty scared when we were arguing and he pulled a knife and threatened to throw it at me. Needless to write, I think we need help. I'm willing to get help but he isn't. I need to talk with someone! My husband is a wonderful man and has lost control of his emotions for the first time. We need to stop arguing so much. But how?

07-09-2009, 10:28 AM	#1 (permalink)
Winnie Registered User Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 7	Could my husband be aggressive? My husband and I have been happily as well as unhappily married for 20 years now. We both don't want to give up on the marriage, but sometimes I feel that I try to understand him a lot more than he tries to understand me. He has never been physically abusive with me, but today I got pretty scared when we were arguing and he pulled a knife and threatened to throw it at me. Needless to write, I think we need help. I'm willing to get help but he isn't. I need to talk with someone! My husband is a wonderful man and has lost control of his emotions for the first time. We need to stop arguing so much. But how?