 Re: Need to vent
Look for the backup file on the PC she syncs with before you resync. Unless she backs up to a separate drive it could copy over the previous backup log, and you may lose the old/deleted texts. You have to read them (unless she is savvy and already deleted the backup log file). They will tell you what you need to know. Either he is gay and she's been throwing fantasy in his direction for fun - which is still WRONG and problematic to your marriage...or they're in an affair and the gay story is a coverup they agreed upon prior to being found out (they both said it right away...either because it's true or because they planned that as a contingency).
On a PC: ~/Library/Application Support/MobileSync/Backup
File to look for is: "3d0d7e5fb2ce288813306e4d4636395e047a3d28"
Copy to a separate place and then open it in Textpad (you can download it online for free)
Good luck man...she's probably lying. Don't tell her you actually are looking anymore. Until you find more.
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