Re: Need a man's opinion
As a Man, I am extremely flirtatious, and usually mean no Harm when I do flirt, plus most of my female friends know I am harm less, even when I tell them they look smoking hot in that outfit.
BUT I make it clear from the start I am a goofball and I like to flirt, and to never ever take me SERIOUS...IE we are never hitting the sheets.
Establish a boundry, tell him, thanks for the compliment and your husband says the same thing. Then simply discuss how much you love your husband....He should get the idea politely and fall back on the flirtatious behavior, unless he is pond scum.
But Tell him point blank, the compliments are fine, but do not expect anything, and if he wants to go to lunch, that you would LOVE to meet his wife and see when your husband can join you.
He should get the idea....If not ignore him, but something like this needs boundries or you need to be blunt.
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