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Originally Posted by sisters359
That is scary and reason for immediate intervention. He needs counseling, a.s.a.p., no excuses. Maybe that will lead to joint counseling, but he should make an appointment and go, and explain what he did and how it is out of character but scary to him, too, to be that out of control.
If you have kids, consider their safety and yours as compromised. Remember you can call 911 if you feel threatened again--document his behavior as best you can. Please stay in touch so we know you are safe.
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My husband has never done anything to the children. And this is one of the very few times he lost control for a moment. But still, it did scare me. But even when he did show I knife, I yelled at him that he should just go ahead and use or hit me and that will be my final line. If he did ever hurt me, I would leave him! But I don't want to ever get hurt by him, because I may never forgive him for it. So yes, I think we both need counseling so nothing does happen. We love each other very much, but the yelling needs to stop.