04-21-2012, 05:46 PM
Join Date: Apr 2012
| | Re: Guess what.
Originally Posted by Gratitude
Any marriage could go on forever, or bust in a year. Yes you married young, but you are married now so go into it with the best attitude you can. Don't give up at the first sign of hard times unless there is abuse etc involved (and there will definitely be times when it's not always roses), give as much as you can and if he doesn't treat you right or it's not working, it's ok if you need to leave. Everybody makes decisions that might not work out in the end. If you ever need advice, come here. Don't worry about the people who will say 'I told you so'. There is a wealth of knowledge on this forum and lots of people want to help.
You act like you're 17, because you're 17. That's the way it goes. Take on the advice and store it away, and go forward with your marriage as happy as you can. It's not about proving anyone wrong. This is your life, you are the only one affected. Your opinion is the only one that counts.
Many congrats, I hope you have a long and happy life together. Don't focus on the next 10 years, just do one day at a time.
Mrs. JZ 4.14.12
My heart and my soul belong to this man I met in my moments of misfortune who brought me back up on my feet and opened my eyes to a whole new world and taught me a whole new way to love and to live.