Re: Does she have to leave her job?
I fight because it means so much to me. I fight because I honestly believe she doesn't realize what she is losing. She is so caught up in what is happening at work, including the affair, that she cannot step back and see the bigger picture. She cannot see that she is destroying (if it isn't already too late) her chances at long term happiness.
She has done all of this in the name of love and happiness, yet that is exactly what she is throwing away. She doesn't realize that her job is meaningless if she is serious about finding both. She was so eager to throw away what she already had to find those. If she realizes this, then maybe she will see what she has to do.
I need to work with my therapist on letting go. I know I do, but when you love someone so totally, like I do, it is so very hard.
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