SA - from what you've said about your H before, I don't think he'd really pay much attention to this topic.
He may or may not be a "Nice Guy." Whats most important is that he sounds comfortable with who he is.
You can't always control your reputation - but your reputation isn't who you really are. It's just what other people think of you.
“Fighting for peace is like screwing for virginity!" - Carlin