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Eli-Zor · 04-22-2012, 12:10 PM

" I emailed him later that day and sent him my terms.... (ironically... the same terms I sent in June 2011). He got a bit pissy about the email and told me that he did not demands."

A few words to describe your husband :-

Look at poor me
Lack of remorse
Wants to rug sweep and won't answer probing question or give you further details of his affair
His OW and him are falling apart, thinks he can pretend counciling has helped him see the light

He is a taker, wants you begging and asking for him back.

Stick to your guns , he comes back truely remorseful prepared to move mountains for you, after all he was more than prepared to move to the land of happiness with the OW and leave you and your family by the wayside.

Time he acted like a real man, the days where he was trusted are gone.

"I said I was very torn and needed ABSOLUTE proof that affair is over before I would even considering showing up for the first session. She said he would give me absolute proof. "

I guess his councelor was wrong, in his next session it will be 'woe me' time him saying your not prepared to reconcile.

Be brave.

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Eli-Zor Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 2,630	Re: Torn whether to reconcile..? " I emailed him later that day and sent him my terms.... (ironically... the same terms I sent in June 2011). He got a bit pissy about the email and told me that he did not demands." A few words to describe your husband :- Look at poor me Lack of remorse Wants to rug sweep and won't answer probing question or give you further details of his affair His OW and him are falling apart, thinks he can pretend counciling has helped him see the light He is a taker, wants you begging and asking for him back. Stick to your guns , he comes back truely remorseful prepared to move mountains for you, after all he was more than prepared to move to the land of happiness with the OW and leave you and your family by the wayside. Time he acted like a real man, the days where he was trusted are gone. "I said I was very torn and needed ABSOLUTE proof that affair is over before I would even considering showing up for the first session. She said he would give me absolute proof. " I guess his councelor was wrong, in his next session it will be 'woe me' time him saying your not prepared to reconcile. Be brave. Posted via Mobile Device Last edited by Eli-Zor; 04-22-2012 at 12:18 PM.