PBear

Your degrees of knobitude are high, grasshopper. Starting with sticking your unwrapped **** in someone you don't really know. Compound that with no checking on who's taking ownership of birth control, and continuing a relationship so she has something to do...

I think you should do some reading on codependent relationships, as you're about to embark on an 18+ year journey. You seem to need someone to "fix", and she needs to be fixed. In more ways than one, apparently...

If it was my, my first step would be to talk to a lawyer and find out what your legal obligations are, and your rights. And investigate paternity tests. No sense taking on trouble that isn't really yours. Then make sure you can at least meet your obligations. Finally, figure out which of your rights you'd like to enforce. Keep in mind that the status quo is often the basis for future negotiations. So don't expect you can demand a 50/50 custody split when the kids are 6 if you give up your rights now.

Good luck!

C
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