| | Re: No sex for months
Sorry to clarify,
she doesn't feel sexual about anything, nothing arouses her and she doesn't feel sexy.
Yes, it was someone she met online from before we met and chatted to. Nothing was secret and I was allowed to read he chat history etc. I did encourage it as I found it arousing.
This did coincide with the sexual peak. Although somethif has just occurred to me, I did have penile surgery and was not allowed sex for 6 weeks and was advised to avoid arousal.
Our sex life has always been less than I would have liked (except during the time above) but it was acceptable. Previously we sid have a rough patch but she was under severe stress in her job and was on the edge of a nervous breakdown. she received counselling for this and is "better" for want of, ironically, a better word.
So, to sum up, sex drive has always been lower than my own except for a period last year. She stopped seeing him bcause she started feeing guilty and was worried that I wasn't really happy with it.
I did not behave the same way but it would have been acceptable.