| | Re: Confused, lost, and need un-biased advice.
Thanks for responding. Her and I talked for 4 hours last night and got alot out about what is going on. She is basically where I was with her emotions and I am on my way to getting better. She said she is having a hard time feeling anything right now, and not just with us. She's having a hard time connecting with our kids, people she works with, and even some of her longtime friends. Some of this had to do with her thinking I wasn't commited to changing myself because I've said many times before I would and then a few weeks into it I'd regress. I think I convinced her about my sincerity this time though because this was one of those epiphany (sp) type of moments for me. I told her that I'd support her and help her work out whatever is wrong with her. I don't know if she has some type of mental problem, her dad had skitsophrenia (sp again), or if she's just having a hard time coping with all the change that is going on. She felt like I was forcing myself to try and love her again but that wasn't the case.
I really hope this is one of those best case scenario type of things because at our core we're a pretty strong couple, but we just have some big issues we need to tackle.