Re: Should we seperate longer?
I don't really see anything that says you two are doing anything to fix your issues. Ending your separation by getting back together seems pretty pointless, as you'll just have the same problems, plus you've got the issues of having slept with other people. Continuing the separation as it is seems pointless to, as you're (again) not doing anything to fix the issues. Your relationship is not going to magically fix itself.
My thoughts... Both of you stop seeing other people and get some help. Individual and joint counselling. Failing that, call it a day and end things so you can both move on.
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