 Re: Husband has a crush on someone else
I've asked him to tell me every time he gets an email from her, or sees her etc and I think he agreed. But since then I have checked his email and seen that she has sent an email which he has read. This was 2 days ago and he still has not told me about it. I don't know what to do. If I bring up the topic again he will know that I know he has received a recent email from her. I don't understand. He knows this really upsets me and continues to tell me that nothing is going on. So, why does he continue to hide stuff from me. He told me that he no longer has feelings for her, but of course, I don't think I believe this. I am interested to hear your opinions about what he should be doing to prove this to me - that he no longer has feelings for her.
He still thinks that the only way he could do something wrong is if he sleeps with her. He doesn't get it that the fact of having a crush is a form of betrayal of trust and it is wrong particularly when the other partner is really upset about it, so much so that it has sent them into depression.
How can I get him to understand that he has already crossed the line? That an affair is not just about sex?
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