Originally Posted by Havesomethingtosay
That's fine.... But read the thread and it looks like I am the only shallow one on TAM. In actuality, most were pretty rough on him and all told him it was his problem.
I didn't read it but will take your word for it. Again, not everyone is going to feel the same on one subject. I personally am like you -- I want my partner to be fit--or that they make the effort to be fit. If my partner gained a ton of pounds & had zero desire to change that, I would prob be turned off. But then I like to be fit and enjoy putting in the work to take care of my body with diet & fitness.
But some people do get offended at that. Different strokes...