Originally Posted by Jeff/BC
I didn't respond only because the thread was such a trainwreck that I didn't see any useful input I could have.
The problem starts the moment you use the word "shallow" to describe something which is important to a person. From there, it's all downhill. Women's emotional needs are lofty and pure. Men's are shallow and base. There you have it.
But in this case (and I ignored the thread for 4 days too), I felt for the young man's story and the fact that he was piled on and not a single person told him his feelings were VALID.
Every time a virgin bride/groom posts, I cringe knowing where it is going.