| | Re: trying to be strong..
First, I would like to say how sorry I am to hear you are going thru all of this. That is awful! He should be there with you and your daughter--he is really missing out.
Welcome to the world of cheating. A cheater is a very selfish person; they care about no one but themselves. Because they have this other person, they will find fault with you (even the most miniscule things). Will he go to counseling? Is there a minister, priest, etc. who can intervene?
Hang in there!