| | Re: Eureka...but what do I do with it?
Ah ... yes, the 'happy' rule.
I want you to learn a new rule.
The only person's whose happiness you can be responsible for, is your own.
Further, don't take responsibility for someone else's happiness. It's a losing proposition based upon the tenet above.
If two people in a relationship are doing what they need to do, for themselves, and for the relationship ... than happiness is often the by-product.
Sounds like you're on the right track.
"I figured out they were serious eventually but was thinking it was ridiculous. I wanted to kick them in the balls." - Trenton