| | Re: hurt and confused!!!!
Do all that has been advised. File for divorce. do not tell her. Let her be served. Do not contact her. Pack her sh!t up and put it in storage. The first month will cost you one dollar. Then tell her she pays it. If she doesn't, tell her that you enjoy watching her storage unit, being auctioned off on one of the reality shows. She will most likely try to use the kids against you, to get you to pull out of the divorce.
My friend, up to now, you have been a doormat. Time to man up. If your kids confront you. Tell them, you gave it all you had. But that your mom is having sex with another guy, and you are through. Remember, you are teaching your children about marriage. Would you want the way you live now to be their example? To be someones doormat, to have no self respect, to give this as an inheritance to their kids? Whether you go through the divorce or not is based on whether her fog clears. I wouldn't wait.