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Toffer · 04-24-2012, 10:51 AM

Serpico,

Her behavior is suspect at least. She likes to dance. Why can't you go with her?

Also, if her "friend" was a guy and she kissed him, would you still be OK with that? It's still cheating and they may still be experimenting!

Fortunately, there are no kids in this slow motion train wreck. You need to find out where she's going and with whom. I'd recommend a Voice Activated Recorder in her car (attach it under the seat using heavy duty velcro) I'd also get a GPS unit to put in her car and that way you won't have to follow her around. You can view the GPS and see if her story and times match up.

Put a keylogger on your computer too. It will help find any secret email accounts (if there are any) that she could be using to communicate with this "friend" or anyone else.

Your gut is telling you something for a reason. Follow it for now. Do not tell her you're doing these things

04-24-2012, 10:51 AM	#13 (permalink)
Toffer Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: East Coast Posts: 2,827	Re: Clubbing all the time... Serpico, Her behavior is suspect at least. She likes to dance. Why can't you go with her? Also, if her "friend" was a guy and she kissed him, would you still be OK with that? It's still cheating and they may still be experimenting! Fortunately, there are no kids in this slow motion train wreck. You need to find out where she's going and with whom. I'd recommend a Voice Activated Recorder in her car (attach it under the seat using heavy duty velcro) I'd also get a GPS unit to put in her car and that way you won't have to follow her around. You can view the GPS and see if her story and times match up. Put a keylogger on your computer too. It will help find any secret email accounts (if there are any) that she could be using to communicate with this "friend" or anyone else. Your gut is telling you something for a reason. Follow it for now. Do not tell her you're doing these things