Originally Posted by Tommyboy
So this morning, So yesteday after work my wife and I were driving around and she mentioned how this person has been texting her non stop all day. Saying stuff like, "hey, you havent got back with me about lunch, I would love to have lunch with your kids and mine, why havent you responded, Where have you been, You are the same ole person smh". This person sent all these text and my wife didn't respond. Now, One thing i know about my wife is she hates people texting her back to back when she hasn't responded. After waking up I casually mentioned what is up with her and this person? Why did she want to get into contact with her. I asked why did she give her, her number? I said I do not understand. She answered surprised and said this is what people do. She was an old freind and she just wanted to meetup. So, I guess my wife didnt see anything wrong with it. My wife just wanted to be friends. So, when my wife was making me breakfast she told me she got another text late last night from this person just saying " bye". My wife said whatever, this person is acting to weird anyway and I just laughed.
So, I guess the lesson I learned in this whole situation is I need to trust my wife. No we haven't talked about boundaries, but 9 out of 10 times my overreaction is from things and situations I make up in my own mind. Not to sweat the small stuff like her running into an old co-worker.
******If it was a guy, this would have been very different.
Interesting. The lesson I got is that you need to communicate with your wife. Not saying you should not trust her. How about you have an ongoing dialogue and talk about this kind of stuff. You know, whatever stuff. That way there is less tension about things. Stay plugged in. This does not seem to be reason to disengage. That is my point.
You were also validated that there was an issue. You gut was right. The lady was creepy.