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Originally Posted by Samson  I think our jobs are to blame, we can't act as our real selves during the work day so we fight one another instead. Not health. |
Well, maybe not.
NO job is EVER to blame for a person's choices and actions. The person is. You revert back to whatever because you get a PAYOFF from it. She reverts back to whatever because SHE gets a payoff from it. Nothing more, nothing less.
To blame a job is to let yourself off the hook. Failing to accept responsibility gets you...miserable and divorced.
