Originally Posted by Samson
I think our jobs are to blame, we can't act as our real selves during the work day so we fight one another instead. Not health.
Well, maybe not.
NO job is EVER to blame for a person's choices and actions. The person is. You revert back to whatever because you get a PAYOFF from it. She reverts back to whatever because SHE gets a payoff from it. Nothing more, nothing less.
To blame a job is to let yourself off the hook. Failing to accept responsibility gets you...miserable and divorced.