Originally Posted by Bravo2.0
I work 3 overnight 12.5 hour shifts so I am home for the kids everyday. She has a typical 9-5 job. With me being with her she was able to pull her two kids out of day care and has marched up the corporate ladder.
She is a walking rage machine, not just with me but with the kids as well. She comes home from work angry, she goes to work angry, She's angry all of the time. The more I do, the more the kids do to make her happy, she just finds something else to be angry about. It's absolutely insane living under these conditions. I walk on egg shells not knowing what will set her off.
Right now I pay her $1,000 a month. He ex pays her $650. The mortgage is $1,100.
She inherited over 800k from her parents and thats all in the bank.
the point is, when she wants to spend, there is no shortage of money. When it comes to the monthly bills, she claims there is always a shortage and she would like me to make that shortage up.
So, I assume she ALWAYS gave you the silent treatment when she was p.o.'d. I also assume you were privy to this "attractive" behavior while dating.
Here is what it is. She is selfish. She is a major beyotch. You are something she uses to allow her to keep her inheritance safe and her own paycheck.
So, you have a no-sex, rage machine on your hands. MC isn't helping. You are bending over backwards. That isn't helping. The kids are also suffering from her wrath.
How soon can you cut your losses, pack up your stuff, and get the heck outta there?
Leave her to her own misery, rage, or whatever mood she so desires. Let her count her money. My only feeling is for the children who have to live with this harpy. MEH!!!