AR upon recommendation of a friend I read your story and it was very touching. While infidelity wasn't part of my bad marriage equation the trauma that follows is similar. I got a lot out of your story because while I didn't cheat I was the one that caused hurt to my husband and sometimes I forget how deep those wounds go. He doesn't share that with me but I see evidence that it's there. We are healing but it's a slow process.
Anyway just letting you know that there is purpose behind you putting this out there for people like me to read.