Originally Posted by lovelygirl
I wouldn't say my man is different. In my previous relationship I used to always tell my ex 'Oh, you're just like other men' because I was conscious that he was not different.
So, not every woman thinks her man is different. I'm sure even when someone is blinded by love, they are able to tell if their partner stands out or not.
At least, I was able to tell it.
Men are different about a great many things. They are like snowflakes ... they are unique but still all melt in your mouth .... err hands ... I mean they can be different in many ways but all still find women attractive.
Ummmm anyway. Men have different character and personalities. That said, one big variant is how much testosterone they have going for them. So just beacuse a man has character and control do not assume he would not love to be inside you if the conditions were right. If he is married he should not dwell on this of course. He needs to repress such urges and not put himself in a risky situation with you. He can legitimatlely like you as a friend. But love feelings can be confusing. So while he likes you as a friend he can still be stimulated by you.
So a man with less testosterone can probably handle this friend zone thing better all else equal. And I guess then this friend zone guy having less testosterone may be easier for you to ignore ... I mean like as a friend.