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nicole200965 · 04-25-2012, 11:38 AM

My husband and I have been together for 11 years and married for 9. We have 2 kids. A 5 year old and a 6 year old.

We have always been really touchy and our friends always make comments about how we are like newlyweds. The past 6 months things have been different. There is not my physical touch. I feel rejected by him even though he says he likes when i hug or kiss him. But i dont think so. I have been with him long enough to know.

Our sex life is ok. The sex is good but we don't have sex as much as we use to. Its like once every week and a half to two weeks. It was a least once or twice a week before. Is all of this just a part of being together for so many years? Being intimate is very important to me and i believe this is what has kept us so close for so long. But it is a deal breaker for me. I feel selfish for feeling that way but I feel so alone in even when he is around. Am I wrong to consider leaving if this can't be fixed? This smallest thing he does makes me so upset. I have had to get up and get on the couch during the night for the last 2 or 3 weeks to be able to sleep.

04-25-2012, 11:38 AM	#1 (permalink)
nicole200965 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 16	Physical touch My husband and I have been together for 11 years and married for 9. We have 2 kids. A 5 year old and a 6 year old. We have always been really touchy and our friends always make comments about how we are like newlyweds. The past 6 months things have been different. There is not my physical touch. I feel rejected by him even though he says he likes when i hug or kiss him. But i dont think so. I have been with him long enough to know. Our sex life is ok. The sex is good but we don't have sex as much as we use to. Its like once every week and a half to two weeks. It was a least once or twice a week before. Is all of this just a part of being together for so many years? Being intimate is very important to me and i believe this is what has kept us so close for so long. But it is a deal breaker for me. I feel selfish for feeling that way but I feel so alone in even when he is around. Am I wrong to consider leaving if this can't be fixed? This smallest thing he does makes me so upset. I have had to get up and get on the couch during the night for the last 2 or 3 weeks to be able to sleep.