| | Re: Choose Husband or Friend??
I have known my Best Friend for nearly all my life and she would never ever raise her hand to me or I to her. That is not a friendship that is an immature joke of a friendship. Her huisband is right she needs to get this person out of her life for good and as soon as possible. That is abuse and it has no place in any relationship.
I hope your coworker makes better choices for friends. Oh and to answer your first question. If my husband told me to choose between him and a friend of mine, the friend is gone. It is that simple. my life time commitment it to him and our relationship and family and no other.