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Old 04-25-2012, 03:22 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Living with your mother is not going to help him mature by any means and could be making the problems worse. Before just throwing in the towel though, you should start to do everything possible to work on your marriage. Look at how you are responding to his immaturity and think about ways of communicating your needs to him that will not make it sound as if you are blaming or judging him. If he is willing to work with you, then you can start to work things out and the sexual attraction should come back when you are not so upset with him. Only after you know you have given it 100% and tried EVERYTHING you can think of should you consider leaving.
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