Originally Posted by serpico396
I actually have more trouble trusting her with this particular female friend than with the guys at the club. I know she won't do anything with them.
You don't know that, many people like myself wouldn't think in a million years their spouse would cheat and many times (again, like myself) it was the last person they suspected. What she is doing is inappropriate and tempting fate.
All this sounds like bad news bears. You want a kid and be a grownup and she wants to keep partying.
Maybe its time to re-think your situation and find someone with the same goals as you (after a D of course). It doesn't sound like you 2 are on the same page and most likely won't ever be.
Sounds drastic but only you know if you are wasting your time being with someone like this, a time-bomb for infidelity.