Re: i just found out he cheated 2 years ago what do i do
I think you have alot of ways of fixing this. First you need to set some ground rules. No drinking to the point he loses control. No going out to drink because the two of you had a fight and so on. Set the rules up so this can not happen again like it did. Also talk. talk alot but more importantly listen to each other. I know your hurt and you need to express your hurt to him. I tell alot of people instead of trying to do it with words were the other one gets defensive and interupts you. Write a letter to him. Don't do a guilt letter but simply a letter explaining how it hurt you and asking questions of him like how do you see us fixing this and moving forward.
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