Originally Posted by nicole200965
The past 6 months things have been different. There is not my physical touch. I feel rejected by him even though he says he likes when i hug or kiss him. But i dont think so. I have been with him long enough to know.
Our sex life is ok. The sex is good but we don't have sex as much as we use to. Its like once every week and a half to two weeks. It was a least once or twice a week before. Is all of this just a part of being together for so many years? Being intimate is very important to me and i believe this is what has kept us so close for so long. But it is a deal breaker for me. I feel selfish for feeling that way but I feel so alone in even when he is around. Am I wrong to consider leaving if this can't be fixed? This smallest thing he does makes me so upset. I have had to get up and get on the couch during the night for the last 2 or 3 weeks to be able to sleep.
A couple months ago my wife had a private meeting with our MC then the two of them came out and totally banned me from touching her.
Sure, I could have left, but that wouldn't accomplish any of my long term goals. I genuinely feel sorry for her, the woman is troubled.
I would assert that nothing here is permanent and you can certainly bring things back to even better than they were before. But it will take some work.