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BladeRunner · 04-16-2008, 05:57 PM

Sorry about the late post... I just joined the forum. I am a man who has done his share of masturbation. In a reaction to historic moral condemnation of jerking off, the modern approach is to say that there is nothing wrong with it. This to is incorrect. I don't think that it is morally wrong. I just think that when you are in a relationship, you owe your spouse ALL of your sexual energy. If there are relationship problems, get them out in the open. I am over 50 and went through many distant and disconnected years in my marriage. We only had sex a couple of times a year for a period of over 10 years. My thinking is to issues out in the open and deal with your problems. Otherwise, your life might just slip away while you didn't have what you could have had from your marriage.

04-16-2008, 05:57 PM	#20 (permalink)
BladeRunner Registered User Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 3	Re: Masturbating instead of sex? Sorry about the late post... I just joined the forum. I am a man who has done his share of masturbation. In a reaction to historic moral condemnation of jerking off, the modern approach is to say that there is nothing wrong with it. This to is incorrect. I don't think that it is morally wrong. I just think that when you are in a relationship, you owe your spouse ALL of your sexual energy. If there are relationship problems, get them out in the open. I am over 50 and went through many distant and disconnected years in my marriage. We only had sex a couple of times a year for a period of over 10 years. My thinking is to issues out in the open and deal with your problems. Otherwise, your life might just slip away while you didn't have what you could have had from your marriage.