Originally Posted by anon54
. . . and in total denial and unrealistic how this will turn out for her.
She's in affair foggy land - it's a wonderful place if it had any bearing on reality. She won't see reality until it hits her like a brick. If you try to show it to her she'll fight you kicking and screaming and tell you you're an ass.
If she's like 99.99% of cheaters what she really wants is to have her cake and eat it to. Meaning she won't actually do anything towards really leaving you or divorce. My bet is if anything happens you're going to have to be the one to do it.