hazel22

first things first, you have know and confront your husband about who he truly loves and wants to be with. because it sounds like you are confused on how he feels. you not only have to confront him but you should confront jane and ask her if there are maybe any feelings toward your husband because if she is a true friend to you she wouldnt be clinging to your husband instead of you and then you should tell her how you feel about her talking and giving your husband long hugs. the certainly in the midst of all of this you should really consider how you feel about the situation.. are you having trust issues with your spouse, how you both can work to make a healthy relationship again (what he can do/ what you can do) and what each of you are going through ( he may be dealing with something and you might be going through depression and not able to recognize what is actually going on)