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Heidiw · 07-14-2009, 11:06 PM

If your still having sex then stop! I was doing the same thing but you can't turn off the emotional side of it. Then you start doing wondering if it could work on the marriage still. All it is is a game & I would know trust me. My husband has been cut off completely. Even though he doesn't want to be with me he is always getting a hold of me & wanting to hang out with me. I can't get away long enough to clear my head.

Don't let this continue & ask him to sleep in another room, on couch, or find some where else to sleep all together. You need to be strong. He's got to see what he is throwing away by wanting to separate. Mine is going thru that & all I want is to be happy with or without him.

07-14-2009, 11:06 PM	#36 (permalink)
Heidiw Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 78	Re: Should I still be sleeping with him If your still having sex then stop! I was doing the same thing but you can't turn off the emotional side of it. Then you start doing wondering if it could work on the marriage still. All it is is a game & I would know trust me. My husband has been cut off completely. Even though he doesn't want to be with me he is always getting a hold of me & wanting to hang out with me. I can't get away long enough to clear my head. Don't let this continue & ask him to sleep in another room, on couch, or find some where else to sleep all together. You need to be strong. He's got to see what he is throwing away by wanting to separate. Mine is going thru that & all I want is to be happy with or without him.