Originally Posted by bandit.45
OOB is an authentic man. He respects his children and they in turn honor him.
His wife does not have an authentic bone in her body. Like all people who lack authenticity, she must resort to cheap shots and underhanded actions to validate herself now that she no longer has a husband and family to authenticate and validate her existence.
It is horribly tragic. She is not redeemable. Forgive me for waxing religious, but the only one who can pull her back from the abyss is the Man Himself. But she has to let go of the bottle and the barstool and reach out her hand. Will she?
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Unfortunately, I am not a religious man but fortunately, I admire those who are. However, I do know right from wrong and I am a man with very strong beliefs on morality. I may not answer to God but I have to answer to myself. In many respects, that is harder, as I do not forgive myself easily.
I think my W has a way to go on her journey before the light finally shines through. I hope that day will come, not for me but for her and more importantly, for her kids.
Thanks for your support Bandit.