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Originally Posted by losttrust
Wow like you said long post but I will try my best to give you the best advice I can for now. I myself is living this same situation, but this time my wife cheated on me and H ave not spoken to anyone about it and it is eating me inside, I will eventually discuss it with my wife when I come to terms with it but that's life.
But as for you and your Hubby, If he really really loves you like he says he does, sometimes forgiving and trying to Irons the bumps on the roads of marriage is a good think as long as there is not a repeat of this later in your married life. Keeping a good comunication door open is also a good thing to have. Anyway I hope this help you a bit. try and try, if nothing works, well there is always a seperation and divorce, let hope it doesn't go there, but he will have to put a lot of effort on his part.
Hang in there
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Thank you for the reply. We are both trying to make it past this. We've been seeing a marriage counselor for the past 3 weeks. I really think it's helping and making a difference, although I wish it could just be fixed fast and move on with our marriage...realistically it probably will take more time than I wish it would take. I have to be patient and that is one thing I am not but I must be in this situation. I am really hoping and praying to God that he will NEVER do this to me again.
Hang in there too. Talking to someone about it has helped us a lot so I hope you will seek help and talk about it with someone.
Thanks once again.