Originally Posted by warlock07
Ok, next time you both go out, you notice that your phone's battery is dead. or your charger is damaged and you ordered a new one. In the mean time, you ask her the phone a couple of time . See how she reacts when you ask for the phone. If she gives you the password and changes it afterwards -- Red flag. If she is over rotective, redflag. If she does not, you can keep checking on it anyway,
What my WS always did (sorry if I said this already) was, 'sure, let me just quickly check my work emails' every single time, no matter the time of day. because his work includes companies from asia and people who pull all-nighters, I never suspected anything. What he was doing was quickly going into texts and deleting her texts. It only took about 20 seconds and then he'd hand me the phone.