Re: new and lost (sorry, long)
Smoking, ALcohol, Bad hygene sounds like he has depression issues and until those are adressed I don't think you will have a husband. Further it sounds like both of you have communication issues that need to be worked on because if these problems have been this bad for this long then something isn't being said, said right or listened to.
I would think that you need to really evaluate your relationship with him and decide what you want, and what you need from him to continue being married and I'd question why you stayed marriage if he is this much of an ogre.
draconis
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