| | Re: Need some perspective
I richly join my other TAM compatriots in suggesting your doing everything that is reasonably possible prior to instituting "the 180." If all else fails on your part, then it might be indicative of a much deeper and broader problem.
So work on your situation as lovingly as you know how, keep us appraised of what's going on, and then if things have failed to reach an improved state, then we can look at other remedies.
Right now, Dignity, you owe it to wife, your kids, but more importantly, to yourself! Let God continue to speak to you in this journey of yours and we'll be here for you if you should need us. God's speed and we wish you nothing but the best!