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Originally Posted by Mavash.  Absolutely!!! That's where we are. He doesn't like it as it means he's getting older to which I tell him lovingly to shut up and let me take charge. 
I've got enough drive for both of us. LOL |
This is very true...However, you must handle this situation with care...He must remain in his eyes the hot stud and not a man in need...Again going to bed naked is a turn on...You can only take charge so much and then transfer this thought to him...He must believe in himself...
Far too many not only lose hope, but faith in themselves...This is where the lover takes over...Believe it or not, my husband knows and thinks he is a hot man....He now has this new thing going...Before we have sex (which is usually in the master bedroom) I pee...This is in the separate area of the bathroom...I will be doing my thing and he now has chose to come in naked and stand in front of me with a big hot erection and stuff his manhood in my mouth to be sucked off...This is new...I love it...It has shown me that all my work has paid off and that his confidence is back....He is really quite a guy....
IMO, a man must watch his diet...Don't gain weight...Weight is a handicap...Watch the carbos....All play a part in having a wonderful and hot older sex life...Seeing we are 75 and he 76, I believe we qualify for this....
I am going to add this post to my Long Term Thread here...It is time that I let it all hang out about how neat older age can be...Take care..
