Originally Posted by morituri
Romance is not going to drop on your lap like in the movies. If you truly want it, you are going to have to go find it. Granted that right now you are recovering from the end of your marriage and are in no shape to jump into another committed relationship (rebound) but eventually you will have to go out and meet women. When you do, keep in mind the following.
How I am going to approach this is to mix with lots of women. Although, I am only interested in socialising at this point, I am discretely making sure that people at work know I am single. There are about 200 women at my work.
I'm going out with three women from work tomorrow night. They decided to join me on a night out as they know I have had a number of great nights out lately and they are wondering why. All of these women are spoken for but it will still be good for me to sharpen my socialising skills.
Of course it goes without saying, that these women are completely out of bounds as far as I am concerned. I would not entertain anything other than harmless fun.