04-27-2012, 09:05 PM
Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: In the South
| | Re: Opportunity for cheating men
Originally Posted by SimplyAmorous
I feel when a good person cheats, and Yes.... I feel GOOD People can fall into something (many many say ...Oh it can never happen to me..then when it does, they eat those words).....it is born out of lonliness, a cold rejecting spouse at home, where they are dying inside....they feel unloved, worthless even, another is friendly to them, someone shows they care....we all have emotions and a sex drive... one thing does lead to another.... we are only human....
When you find yourself in the desert in your own home....months , years at a time...water starts looking pretty damn good outside your doors. But yeah, better to leave those spouses! I am not the cheater type.. but I do not feel I am above falling into something if my husband made me feel like dirt everyday, rejected me continously ,If I was bordering depression over feeling I was worthless... No, that temptation might be too damn much to bare. But I know me.. I would cause so much hell over my unhappiness, raising the roof off of the house...he'd know exactly where I was heading. One thing I am .... is honest.
I feel this is an excellent book, an excellent author, though many will be insulted by it's title: When Good People Have Affairs: Inside the Hearts & Minds of People in Two Relationships : Mira Kirshenbaum: Books
This accurately describes how I feel to a tee... ice cold wife at home for years, feel worthless. Will get in shape and find someone else.