Originally Posted by twl142
My question is what do I do now? I appreciate the good intentions behind advice to "move on" or file for D, but that is not something I am willing or prepared to do.
His A is quite open at work and his close friends know, so given this, and both of our private personalities, I think exposing the A would just backfire.
Any other suggestions?
You have rejected every suggestion posted to you on all of your threads. So why keep asking. You have your own plan... enable the affair, do the 180, and go on vacation by yourself this summer.
So go with your plan. Maybe it will defy all of the norms of how to deal with the situation.. most likely you will continue to be in an open marriage... or end up divorced.