 Re: my wifes needs...
You need to ask her to be very clear on what she needs and wants, explain just like you did to us here at tam how much you love her and want to work it out and are willing to change but you are not a ind reader, you need to know what she wants...some ideas, she doesn't have to give you all the ideas, and she won't want to, because we don't as woman want our husband to do something just because we said it, we want them to do t because they want to. Having a baby definitely changes a woman's body image and it sounds like she may have had some post partum issues too. Did she give you specifics? Did she say I want you to show me you love me? And you did nothing? Sometimes it can be as smile as taking the kids for the day for me, my husband drawing me a bath to relax in, having my cup of coffee out for me ahead of time, helping me set the table for dinner, cooking breakfasting Sunday, going for a walk....we don't have money either.
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